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28 Jan 2004, 16:30
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Star teh mog0r
Join Date: Sep 2000
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ok well relationship help required
since everyone else comes here for advice concerning relationships i thought i might give it a go
im 17 been seeing this girl for about a year and 3 months
this is a long time for anyones standereds....
for quite a while i have had this feeling that i want to see other people, but i am scared to break up with the gf, im worried i wont find somone else i allso dont want to hurt her, and there is a part of me who really dosnt want to break up with
but anyway we did, over somthing compleatly unreleated.....
about 5 days later she came and talk to me, i kept having urges to go over and kiss her, in the end i did
anyway we are now back together, but something dosnt feel right, i love being with her, but i cant help wonder about other possible girls...
im young ELP
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28 Jan 2004, 16:34
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Bernard Black
Join Date: Dec 2003
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Re: ok well relationship help required
You love being with someone, not her in particular. It probably won't last.
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28 Jan 2004, 16:35
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a new low in getting high
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: ok well relationship help required
it's hormones, next.
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28 Jan 2004, 16:37
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Join Date: Jul 2003
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Re: ok well relationship help required
Wow I haven't seen Starmog posting for ages. Hi Starmog 
ps if you've shagged her, move on
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28 Jan 2004, 16:38
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: London, UK
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Re: ok well relationship help required
You don't want to break up with her, mainly because you've been together so long it'd be weird, right?
The grass may seem greener on the other side, but it isn't. Stay with her until you simply would rather spend time with other girls than her. It'll suck breaking up, but nothing is meant to last forever.
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28 Jan 2004, 16:42
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Clerk
Join Date: Jun 2001
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Re: ok well relationship help required
Based on what you've said it's very unlikely that you'll stay together forever. Therefore, it's just a matter of balance. Do you enjoy spending time with her? Do you enjoy screwing her? If yes, yes then stay 'til bored. If no on either question then dump her and find someone else. That "I don't know if I'll find someone" is self-pitying shite and is only true if you're quasimodo.
If you are quasimodo then hahahahahaha.
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28 Jan 2004, 16:48
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Banned
Join Date: May 2001
Location: Further to the right
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Re: ok well relationship help required
1) Get sex first.
2) Get sex second
3) Get sex third
4) Get sex after
5) Realise your life is shallow but you don't care
6) ...........
7) World domination
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28 Jan 2004, 16:50
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Vermin Supreme
Join Date: Jul 2000
Location: Pittsburgh
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Re: ok well relationship help required
find another girl before you break up with her. that's always the ticket.
'there's someone else'
is soooo much better than
'you bore me'
and if she hears somehow that you asked some other girl out, worst case scenario she dumps you. best case scenario you claim you were trying to find a third for a threesome and she's in.
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28 Jan 2004, 16:52
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lolly roffle
Join Date: Nov 2001
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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worst case scenario she dumps you and the other girl finds out you had a gf and so dumps you as well
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28 Jan 2004, 17:42
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Happy
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Canada eh
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Re: ok well relationship help required
and you guys try to tell me that not all guys just want an easy lay
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28 Jan 2004, 17:43
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cynic
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Bishop Auckland Co. Durham
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Re: ok well relationship help required
dont draw it out, as you or her could end up feeling bitter and resentful
better the clean break (if only i could take my own advice)
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28 Jan 2004, 17:45
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Happy
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Canada eh
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Re: ok well relationship help required
just break up with her and go see other people.
if it's 'meant to be' then you'll get back together later
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28 Jan 2004, 17:46
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Happy
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Canada eh
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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I don't remmember anyone ever saying that on these forums.
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in one of my threads about going to the bar.
and i said something about guys going to bars to find easy lays.
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28 Jan 2004, 17:49
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Clerk
Join Date: Jun 2001
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by Aryn
and i said something about guys going to bars to find easy lays.
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Not every guy goes to bars wanting an easy lay. Some guys go to clubs, or book-shops, or wherever looking for an easy lay.
Big difference.
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28 Jan 2004, 17:57
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Banned
Join Date: Jun 2002
Posts: 2,635
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Re: ok well relationship help required
You;ve gotta move in, inertia sucks dude.
You probably wont find anyone straight away, but you cant stay in the same hole forever!
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28 Jan 2004, 18:20
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NEWSBOT
Join Date: Dec 2000
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by Aryn
and you guys try to tell me that not all guys just want an easy lay
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pa forums != all guys
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28 Jan 2004, 18:32
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cynic
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Bishop Auckland Co. Durham
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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pa forums != all guys
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yeah, in RL you get a sloghtly lower geek index than round here, and a slightly higher (if anything) testosterone index, but there you go
i also tend to find hat on the whole the pa forums are quite funny, whereas RL is generally anything but
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28 Jan 2004, 18:35
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Registered User
Join Date: Jun 2000
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by Dante Hicks
Some guys go to book-shops looking for an easy lay.
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noone actually does this
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28 Jan 2004, 18:42
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Käptn Karacho
Join Date: Nov 2000
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by Weeks
but you cant stay in the same hole forever!
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you move in, out, in, out...
err... that's not what u meant right ?!?
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28 Jan 2004, 18:43
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cynic
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Bishop Auckland Co. Durham
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by Nodrog
noone actually does this
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wrong, my housemate used to go and pull in the durham branch of waterstones.
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28 Jan 2004, 23:34
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Destroyer of Worlds
Join Date: Feb 2002
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Re: ok well relationship help required
I know someone who goes to the library to pull. Last term he went in there and sat next to the window and some guys comes and sits next to him and he says 'Did you sit there for the view out the window, or for some other reason?'.
Next thing you know, they're dating. The random guy is a millionaire apparently.
And you're not even supposed to talk i nthe library :p
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28 Jan 2004, 23:53
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wild one
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: River Edge, NJ
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Re: ok well relationship help required
Yeah I read that too, but I assumed from the rest of the spelling she had simply forgotten the S.
Well Jenni, is it she or he?
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29 Jan 2004, 00:07
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Vermin Supreme
Join Date: Jul 2000
Location: Pittsburgh
Posts: 3,280
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Re: ok well relationship help required
i know the answer!
stay with her, but as time goes on become bitter and resentful. do the whole passive-agressive thing, acting more and more like a dick, turning your relationship slowly into a black hole of misery and hurt. as you become more and more cruel to her, she responds by making your life worse as well. then one day you do something so horrible to her that you know you've destroyed her, and you thought the pain before was horrible but this guilt makes it seem like a dream. in a desparate attempt to make the hurting stop, you actually propose to her, locking you forever in a tomb colder than death.
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29 Jan 2004, 00:28
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Clerk
Join Date: Jun 2001
Posts: 13,940
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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Originally Posted by acropolis
in a desparate attempt to make the hurting stop, you actually propose to her, locking you forever in a tomb colder than death.
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How do you not have your own relationship advice column yet?
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29 Jan 2004, 00:58
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Banned
Join Date: Jun 2002
Posts: 2,635
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Re: ok well relationship help required
We need a bitter relationship advice column in GD.
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29 Jan 2004, 01:18
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the merciless
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,271
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Re: ok well relationship help required
Schtop you are too young for all this.
You are clearly not ready yet and I doubt you can grow a beard.
Wait until you can do the latter before you seek a permanent relationship.
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29 Jan 2004, 03:25
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:alpha:
Join Date: May 2002
Location: London, UK
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Re: ok well relationship help required
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in a desparate attempt to make the hurting stop, you actually propose to her, locking you forever in a tomb colder than death.
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Hahahaha
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