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27 Dec 2003, 22:10
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a little bit broken
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can men and women ever really be just friends?
or it is really true that he wants to sleep with her?
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27 Dec 2003, 22:19
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Has Soup On His Head
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Yes , he does. Get over it and find someone that wants to sleep with you.
(Preferably outside of GD hon, its embaressing to watch them fawn over you)
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27 Dec 2003, 22:20
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Wow it's a woman!
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27 Dec 2003, 22:26
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Not Dark or Handsome
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Find a gay one.
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27 Dec 2003, 22:31
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Has Soup On His Head
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Apothos
Find a gay one.
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Would she find him ....
AT THE GAY BAR , GAY BAR , GAY BAR!
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27 Dec 2003, 22:32
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
We (unspecified people) had this discussion last night, and we all agreed.
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Harry:"A man can never be friends with a woman he finds attractive, he always wants to have sex with her."
Sally:"That's not true! I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved."
Harry:"No, you don't"
Sally:"Yes, I do."
Harry:"No, you don't"
Sally:"You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?"
Harry:"No, I'm saying they all want to have sex with you."
Sally:"Well, what if they don't want to have sex with you?"
Harry:"It doesn't matter because the sex part is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story."
Sally:"So a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?"
Harry:"No, you pretty much want to nail them, too."
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27 Dec 2003, 22:32
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Kurashima
Yes , he does. Get over it and find someone that wants to sleep with you.
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i dont really understand what you mean by this sentence
(not looking for a male friend or worried about a particular one
just was thinking about it and fancied finding out a blokes perspective without asking a bloke friend who might be biased
'oh yes madi of course a girl and boy can be just friends, i dont want to sleep with you honest i dont, really, honest, really')
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27 Dec 2003, 22:40
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Not Dark or Handsome
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Kurashima
Would she find him ....
AT THE GAY BAR , GAY BAR , GAY BAR!
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Only if he's a...
SUPERSTAR, SUPER, SUPERSTAR!
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27 Dec 2003, 23:05
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
I am pretty sure that a man can never have a friend which he finds attractive. Oddly enough said man will never have any friend which he doesnt find attractive, exactly because she lacks motivation to make the man go there and listen to any girlie storie that she has to share.
So, in short, men will always want to fool around with its friends.
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27 Dec 2003, 23:25
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Yer,guys like girls as friends who are attractive as you always hope somewhere that you can get it together with them. When you dont like them then you dont particulary want to hang around with them as they lack something that draws you to em.
Its not exactly a concious thing. Guys dont mind being friends with girls but they'd prefer to be shagging them.
You really should post some thoughts from the female perspective Madi. Are girls friends with guys they find attractive and wouldnt mind having sex with at some point?
Personaly I think men and women choose friends the same way they choose partners. You find someone who fits with your type of personality and who you like to look of.
It's just when its friends of the opposite sex then the 'friendship' characteristics overlap with the 'partner' characteristics
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27 Dec 2003, 23:39
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Hey Madi thats a really stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid question.
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27 Dec 2003, 23:55
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Not Dark or Handsome
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by IncubusGod
Personaly I think men and women choose friends the same way they choose partners. You find someone who fits with your type of personality and who you like to look of.
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That cant be right - i'm a right ugly bastard, and i have friends.
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28 Dec 2003, 00:10
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Dace
Hey Madi thats a really stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid question.
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i am a woman
we ask stupid questions
its genetic
we cant help it
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28 Dec 2003, 00:11
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Damn You Watson And Crick
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28 Dec 2003, 00:15
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
i go with the assumption that all men want to sleep with any woman
and am generally pretty clear to those i dont want to have sex with
but i am flirty so sometimes they need telling twice
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28 Dec 2003, 00:17
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share the <3
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
i think i can be friends but if i found you attractive i couldnt help but think of ways of boning you
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28 Dec 2003, 00:55
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
I want to have sex with every male and female friend I have
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28 Dec 2003, 00:56
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
i go with the assumption that all men want to sleep with any woman
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This is just plain wrong.
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28 Dec 2003, 05:28
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
now that the question of sleeping with her has been settled, can we consider the more important issue of whether he wants to having sex with her?
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28 Dec 2003, 05:35
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Happy
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
this explains why i have no friends
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28 Dec 2003, 06:24
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Blatantly overcooked
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Aryn
this explains why i have no friends
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May i be your friend??
/me stares at the juicy ass.
I find you most intelligent and witty!
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28 Dec 2003, 07:01
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Happy
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
no.
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28 Dec 2003, 10:58
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
i am a woman
we ask stupid questions
its genetic
we cant help it
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Speak for yourself.
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28 Dec 2003, 11:19
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
i think that they can be friends, i am sure that i have female friends that i don't want to sleep with.
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28 Dec 2003, 12:57
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Godfather
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
i wouldnt want to sleep with you, i find you in no way attractive whatsoever given what ive seen in pictures...
are we friends?
if we are i have answered the question
if were not
then ive just made a scathing comment.
either way
i win.
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28 Dec 2003, 15:16
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Quote:
Originally Posted by JammyJim
i wouldnt want to sleep with you, i find you in no way attractive whatsoever given what ive seen in pictures...
are we friends?
if we are i have answered the question
if were not
then ive just made a scathing comment.
either way
i win.
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I want to sleep with you <3
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28 Dec 2003, 15:18
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
more attention plz
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28 Dec 2003, 17:48
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Blatantly overcooked
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by JammyJim
i wouldnt want to sleep with you, i find you in no way attractive whatsoever given what ive seen in pictures...
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That was a bit harsh.
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28 Dec 2003, 18:17
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Cute and cuddly
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
yes if one, or both, are homosexual
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28 Dec 2003, 18:26
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Quote:
Originally Posted by JammyJim
i wouldnt want to sleep with you, i find you in no way attractive whatsoever given what ive seen in pictures...
are we friends?
if we are i have answered the question
if were not
then ive just made a scathing comment.
either way
i win.
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i have no idea who you are
i recognise your nic but you havent had enough impact for me to notice you
but you can not fancy me just fine
i lay no claim to being everyones idea of good looking
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28 Dec 2003, 18:30
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
i have no idea who you are
i recognise your nic but you havent had enough impact for me to notice you
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He's the head of the forums.
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28 Dec 2003, 22:26
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Bloomers III
yes if one, or both, are homosexual
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You should just say 'yes, if the bloke's gay', cos let's face it, a straight guy would still want to sleep with a gay girl.
On the female perspective, I would say 'Does it really matter?'.
The only time you get trouble is when he's the outspoken type who will tell you he wants to sleep with you and you realise you'd happily sleep with him, and oh shite now we're in a mess, aren't we?
Only flirt with guys you KNOW won't take it the wrong way - ie: they're gay, hideously unattractive, or attached. That way they know you don't mean it.
(Pro tip: if he has confessed to you that he cheated on his girlfriend then the 'being attached' one doesn't count.)
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28 Dec 2003, 22:33
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Gentlemen should mix with other gentlemen when they desire the company of others; women, like groundlings, can offer no attraction to a true gentleman in a social context.
Have I offended enough people now?
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28 Dec 2003, 22:38
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Lucky
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
i like my grandma but i wouldn't sleep with her.
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28 Dec 2003, 22:54
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Godfather
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by MrL_JaKiri
He's the head of the forums.
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Lets make love listening to the music
like everybody does.
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28 Dec 2003, 22:57
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by JammyJim
Lets make love listening to the music
like everybody does.
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<3
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29 Dec 2003, 01:20
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Registered User
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by W
We (unspecified people) had this discussion last night, and we all agreed.
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29 Dec 2003, 01:42
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Lucky
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
>3
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29 Dec 2003, 07:27
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the merciless
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
or it is really true that he wants to sleep with her?
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It all depends on the relativity of attractiveness in relation of woman to man.
If the man finds the woman attractive due to his standards of attraction then yes it's inevitable that nature will urge him to sow his seeds as frequently as possible.
It is my advice that if you want men to be friends, get pregnant by them and watch them suddenly find that friend zone.
That or look like Kathy Burke, but then again you'd prolly be friends with men who were less attractive and comparitively have lower standards.
These kind of threads are ego-stroking tbh, you know the solution you just want to see people re-affirm your attractiveness.
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29 Dec 2003, 07:34
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
I'm not sure what you're trying to add here.
My quoted dialogue is from "when harry met sally", a movie.
The ladder theory is from http://intellectualwhores.com
God you suck at the internet.
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29 Dec 2003, 16:57
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Oh Canada!
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
or it is really true that he wants to sleep with her?
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I have several female friends, and I don't want to sleep with any of them. I live with a girl, who is considered to be 'hot' by most of my friends, and I have honestly never even thought about sleeping with her.
It is possible to just be friends, but I think that alot of guys, deep down, would like to shag her just to see what she's all about...and vise versa
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29 Dec 2003, 17:47
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Dilly_D
I have several female friends, and I don't want to sleep with any of them. I live with a girl, who is considered to be 'hot' by most of my friends, and I have honestly never even thought about sleeping with her.
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Possible Answer a) Family members don't count. Leave your sister out of it.
Possible Answer b) Are you gay?
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29 Dec 2003, 17:59
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by W
I'm not sure what you're trying to add here.
My quoted dialogue is from "when harry met sally", a movie.
The ladder theory is from http://intellectualwhores.com
God you suck at the internet.
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i wasn't adding anything to your post specifically
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29 Dec 2003, 18:27
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Oh Canada!
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Noctu
Possible Answer a) Family members don't count. Leave your sister out of it.
Possible Answer b) Are you gay?
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a)I don't live with any of my family
b)certainly not, I'd peel my skin off rather than poke bums
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by Dilly_D
b)certainly not, I'd peel my skin off rather than poke bums
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what about girly bottoms?
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30 Dec 2003, 11:54
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the merciless
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
what about girly bottoms?
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Oh give it a rest.
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30 Dec 2003, 17:10
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Oh Canada!
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
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Originally Posted by madi
what about girly bottoms?
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no, no, **** no. the ass is not to be tapped
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30 Dec 2003, 17:50
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Sure they can be friends. Men who dont get sex often or perform in bed like fools will **** anything (basicaly 99.9% of the men on Planetarion). Men who know better pick and choose sexual partners who meet a certain personal criteria.
Women are the same too. Are you one of the 99.9% of the woman on this board or are you the .1% Cream at the top?
Think about it...
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30 Dec 2003, 17:51
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Back again?
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30 Dec 2003, 18:11
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Banned
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Re: can men and women ever really be just friends?
Can't be friends if:
I find them attractive AND like their personality AND don't like anyone else more.
Otherwise, friendship is possible.
Although men and women have hormones so the risk of having sex will probably always be there (unless one person finds the other un-attractive physically or personality-wise).
[edit] yeah what cookie said, but not just related to Planetarion.
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