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3 Nov 2003, 13:24
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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I'd imagine most people couldn't.
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Unless they were the sort who rationalise everything and quote incessantly, in order to present an image of intellectual superiority... whilst concurrently being ignorant of the fact that their lack of social skills is only highlighted by this bizzare behaviour.
I'm with you kids
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3 Nov 2003, 13:27
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
You should have never got into the situation to start with if you couldnt handle this happening
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3 Nov 2003, 13:32
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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You should have never got into the situation to start with if you couldnt handle this happening
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I am actually fine with her seeing other blokes, I'm seeing another girl this week. I just found it distasteful that - after earlier being clearly "with me" - she proceeded to get hammered, avoid me, and shag this other guy.
But ultimately I don't care about her in this sense, I guess I just expected a bit more discretion/respect from her. But having got none (and I've given her LOTS), I'm not bothering with her anymore.
M.
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3 Nov 2003, 14:14
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
I've been in Denial..
I almost drowned
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3 Nov 2003, 14:44
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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I've been in Denial..
I almost drowned
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Heading is the new fisting.
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3 Nov 2003, 14:46
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Heading is the new fisting.
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3 Nov 2003, 14:49
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
Damn, my habit of opening several threads before beginning to read them means I hadn't realised the raging discussion had spread onto another page
Kinda loses the continuality of my comment
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3 Nov 2003, 14:56
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
**** anti-monogamists, I bet they are all single anyway
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3 Nov 2003, 14:58
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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**** anti-monogamists, I bet they are all single anyway
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Those that aren't probably whimper at their lover's feet "I love you, you're the only one for me!"
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3 Nov 2003, 14:59
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
or perhaps we just morally object to multiple partners.
shrug.
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3 Nov 2003, 15:07
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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or perhaps we just morally object to multiple partners.
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I don't. Unless in a serious relationship. What I do object to is going to a party with my "casual bird" and her avoiding me all night and shagging some other guy.
Anyway... I'm over it now Actually can't be arsed wasting more time on her!
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3 Nov 2003, 15:11
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Those that aren't probably whimper at their lover's feet "I love you, you're the only one for me!"
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When rational arguments fail, one-upmanship, us-against-them-ism and general ridicule follow.
Truth is, arguments for monogamy are weak, and are based either on valuing tradition for it's own sake, or on a belief that we're basically animals and not sentient beings who can think rationally.
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3 Nov 2003, 15:18
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
i thought it was largely based on the fact that it pisses your partner off if you sleep with someone else. Thats convinced me, providing my partner sees it the same way ¬_¬
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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i thought it was largely based on the fact that it pisses your partner off if you sleep with someone else. Thats convinced me, providing my partner sees it the same way ¬_¬
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Dishonesty and ignoring your partners wants is generally a bad relationship move, monogamous or not. In fact, it's completely independent of the nature of the relationship.
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3 Nov 2003, 15:24
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Dishonesty and ignoring your partners wants is generally a bad relationship move, monogamous or not. In fact, it's completely independent of the nature of the relationship.
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Exactly. She knew it would at least make me uncomfortable, due to me cancelling a date the night before, cos I thought it would make HER uncomfortable. Whether or not it would is largely irrelevant, as she knew my feelings on the issue.
Needless to say I've washed all the bedding we took down there! She lost one of my pillows though! That's almost as annoying
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3 Nov 2003, 15:28
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Exactly. She knew it would at least make me uncomfortable, due to me cancelling a date the night before, cos I thought it would make HER uncomfortable. Whether or not it would is largely irrelevant, as she knew my feelings on the issue.
Needless to say I've washed all the bedding we took down there! She lost one of my pillows though! That's almost as annoying
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NO!
I say this is just you inventing stuff. From what YOU have written previously (keep in mind that we can't hear her version) it appears that she has been completely on the level, encouraging you to date, being clear that you two ARE in fact (despite what you might think) "just friends". YOU choose to cancel that date, on a mistaken assumption. As someone previously stated, if you'd gone with a male friend, you'd not be pissed when he pulled cause "you went there together".
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3 Nov 2003, 15:37
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
What happened with this girl in the end?
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3 Nov 2003, 15:38
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
I'm not in ANY way denying that we've both been VERY clear about our "parameters" from the outset. TI'm not sure what you think I'm "inventing" either. How could I expect valid responses if I didn't provide unbiased information?
You mistake "friends travelling to a place together" with (as happened) "people who are in a casual relationship travelling down in a couply sense together, after spending the previous night(s) together".
Of course, she's totally free to change her mind about such things. I'm not denying my ego took a dent, as she buggered off with this guy to the room with MY bedding in there. But more so, it was the way she actively avoided me allnight, and her general attitude towards me.
I guess you had to be there, and yes I'm sure I'm not 100% unbiased in my view, although I'm a smart guy, so it's up there above 90%
Anyway, I've calmed down a lot now and realised she's not been as bad as I initially thought, but I've also realised I'm not interested in somebody who would act like this...
Anyway, weren't we talking about fisting Denial?
M.
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Anyway, weren't we talking about fisting Denial?
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
Set down some ground rules along the lines of:
"I don't mind you shagging other blokes so long as I don't know about it and not inconvenienced."
2 years ago me and my present gf started our relationship as a casual thing... She initially decided we shouldn't see each other when she found out that I interpreted this as 'I can sleep with whoever I want'. (after a very enjoyable weekend without her ) Actually she still won't let me forget it...
Things have obviously progressed in our relationship since then...
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3 Nov 2003, 16:53
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
.......
I always thought it was a natural reaction to be possessive in a relationship (to varying degrees)......even supposedly casual and open ones.
Then again that may just be because I dont like to share my toys.
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3 Nov 2003, 17:11
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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Then again that may just be because I dont like to share my toys.
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This toy is 5'9, 28" waist, and 36D... blond, cute...
You get the picture
Yes, I know I'm a lucky bastard!!
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3 Nov 2003, 17:19
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
I must now spend two nights in, sober, reading textbooks, and fiddling about with my makeup.
Bah.
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3 Nov 2003, 17:24
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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I'd probably have done the same in her situation so yeah, youre just being petty.
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3 Nov 2003, 17:26
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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quoting a bi-curious nodrog post
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Let's hope Nod sticks to women.
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3 Nov 2003, 19:19
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
pettyness is so aesthetically unattractive, seriously. You dont all want to be ugly, do you?
'mind games' indeed.
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3 Nov 2003, 19:36
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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pettyness is so aesthetically unattractive, seriously. You dont all want to be ugly, do you?
'mind games' indeed.
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is it possible for you to take a picture of your "hot friend"?
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3 Nov 2003, 19:38
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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is it possible for you to take a picture of your "hot friend"?
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boob pix first plz
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3 Nov 2003, 19:41
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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boob pix first plz
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is it "yes" then?
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3 Nov 2003, 19:43
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
I told you last night I have no digital camera why do you ignore me?
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3 Nov 2003, 19:46
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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I told you last night I have no digital camera why do you ignore me?
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what is that have to do with anything? They don't have digital cameras in London? Maybe your "hot friend" has it. GET INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!
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3 Nov 2003, 19:54
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
you're just crap
(no i haven't read the thread)
:P
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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you're just crap
(no i haven't read the thread)
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DYB!
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3 Nov 2003, 20:09
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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DYB!
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3 Nov 2003, 23:12
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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She is a bit slutty (reckons she's shagged about 70 ppl -
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How come shagging 70 people is only 'a bit' slutty?!
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Re: Is this out of order, or am I just crap?
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How come shagging 70 people is only 'a bit' slutty?!
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I dunno. I think that's quite a lot at 26 years, especially cos she was with one bloke for 4.5 years and another for 2ish... she was pissed one time and told me some of her favorite cheating stories!!
I think it's best I leave her to her own devices
Anyyyyway.... completely randomly, just got back from girl #2's house. A few of us were there, just chatting, nothing more, but it was nice. I suddenly found myself being a lot less bothered about "slightly slutty girl"
G'night!
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