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29 Nov 2004, 23:09
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Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Age range, lets say 3+ years older than yourself?
This go out to both sexes.
How did it work out, and would you do it again?
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29 Nov 2004, 23:11
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Yes, I had a 8.5 year older girlfriend. We had a shitloads of problems but age wasn't one of them.
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29 Nov 2004, 23:14
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
I never seem to go out with anyone my own age.
My first bf was 36 when I started going out with him and I was about 23. It lasted 2 months.
My second bf was 18 when I started going out with him and I was 25 I think. It lasted about 8 or 9 months.
My current bf is 23. I am 28. We have been together about a year and a half and are now living together and we really have no relationship problems.
I don't think age has anything to do with it really. It doesn't often occur to me that my boyfriend is 5 years my junior because we are very compatible, have similar tastes and interests and genuinly enjoy each others company.
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30 Nov 2004, 00:03
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
I had a 41-year old gf once, and I was...
Oh, why bother, all this will end up in is "WOW, WHO WAS SHE? EVE?" or somesuch hilarious witticism based on my apparent enormous age.
Go on GD, enjoy the topic, one I could have contributed to, but no, you've ruined it for me, RUINED.
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30 Nov 2004, 00:08
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
I was with a 19 year old for a while when I was 14 (we lived together for as while etc.), she was psychopathic and it was horrible.
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30 Nov 2004, 00:09
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Yes, currently am in such a relationship. its working out great so far
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30 Nov 2004, 00:10
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Embroglio
I was with a 19 year old for a while when I was 14 (we lived together for as while etc.), she was psychopathic and it was horrible.
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Dare I be boring and be the one that asks "wtf"?
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30 Nov 2004, 00:21
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stew
Dare I be boring and be the one that asks "wtf"?
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well let me be a dull prick as well then
WTF ?
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30 Nov 2004, 00:46
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
my last 3 relationships all of the women were on average 8 years older than me, lived with 2 of them for a year each too. Age isn't too relevant, but life stage is. Don't be a student with a worker for example, it puts pressures on to do with costs of keeping a home (she brought in more than me, after a while... that got tense).
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30 Nov 2004, 01:13
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
As I know the one your talking about, MAd, I will refrain from commenting upon what you wrote
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
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30 Nov 2004, 01:39
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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Originally Posted by Dead_Meat
I had a 41-year old gf once, and I was...
Oh, why bother, all this will end up in is "WOW, WHO WAS SHE? EVE?" or somesuch hilarious witticism based on my apparent enormous age.
Go on GD, enjoy the topic, one I could have contributed to, but no, you've ruined it for me, RUINED.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
General opinion is women who are older than yourself generally mean trouble.
They were right about old maids you know.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Mine was 2 1/2 poss 3 years older. Age was an issue. On a different page in the book of life etc, wanted different things, had different experience. I suppose it could be argued age was just a pretext though. It was only an issue as she made it one. Lasted 3 months.
Currently my interests lie with a lady 3 years my senior. The age thing doesn't bother me, as I'm looking at more fundermental things that age does not really affect. It could be an issue, but not a major one I feel.
In short, to misanswer your question, it depends.
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30 Nov 2004, 21:39
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Do older girls/men shag better?
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
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30 Nov 2004, 21:41
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
In my experience, yes, but I think my current date (8 years younger)is trying to give me the idea that she is quite skilled as well, but maybe she's just bragging. Which is fine nevertheless :P
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30 Nov 2004, 23:46
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Quote:
Originally Posted by SilverSmoke
In my experience, yes, but I think my current date (8 years younger)is trying to give me the idea that she is quite skilled as well, but maybe she's just bragging. Which is fine nevertheless :P
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30 Nov 2004, 23:51
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
You are just jealous, you pathetic loser.
love ya dacyboy
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30 Nov 2004, 23:56
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Why would i be jealous of someone who was dating a disease ridden WHORE?!
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30 Nov 2004, 23:59
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
She only had sex with one guy, she lost virginity a year ago or something.
(talking to her about these matters on msn)
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
I had a bit of a fling with a 25 yr old (i was 20) age wasn't really a problem.
Had a thing with a 26 yr-old aussie while travelling this summer, She didn't seem older than me but said something along the lines of me being too young for her. I basically stated that if I had said I was 24 she wouldn't have known any better and she wouldn't have had a problem with it, she agreed, but nothing really came of it anyway.
I imagine it can be a problem if your lives are worlds apart put thats more to do with life experience and maturity than age.
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Quote:
Originally Posted by SilverSmoke
She only had sex with one guy, she lost virginity a year ago or something.
(talking to her about these matters on msn)
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She says:
"I only had sex with one guy ..."
however she mutters:
"... who i felt i really loved at the time. The other hundred or so guys i've shagged meant nothing"
under her breath
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
ooooow so bitter!
Anyways, she called me yesterday night, while in bed, being very very cute and giggling
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
i refuse to release any details other than the age gap was significantly more than 3 years older.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
when i was 17 i was living with my 34 year old boyfriend
it didnt work out
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
gah, madi equals me for age difference
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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gah, madi equals me for age difference
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
heh.
clearly the thread says when i was the young one, and i was 18 at the time
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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Originally Posted by Toccata & Fugue
My girlfriend is 31 and I'm 25. Age is not a problem for me although she has a few issues about it. Its going OK, we live together and have a few problems but that is mainly because she is psychotic rather than the fact she is older than me.
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Had a 19 year old gf when i was 16.
I think there are a few things which contibute to a relationship [with an age diffence] working out:
1) It really really helpsif you are over 18/21 (depending where you live). The legal age to enter pubs and club (the adult world) often draw a social barrier- those who can and those who can't- it creates two very different social atmoshperes with entirely different interactions appropiate etc.
2) Common interests. Enough said i think.
3) Maturity and empathy.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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Do older girls/men shag better?
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and you know 1 of them, and yeah that ended sad...
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10 Dec 2004, 15:45
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
i'm 24 and phil's 21, and as phil posted earlier, it's working out great. age was never an issue with us.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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Yes
and you know 1 of them, and yeah that ended sad...
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
When i was 17-19 i dated some older girls, all about 28-33, i knew some because a older (33) friend, he had a gf 19 years old. I found cool, i was shy and the first one i dated help me a lot to deal with such different expeience, we basically did what i would with a same aged gf, but the fact she was older made things look different. This 33 old friend i used to met to chat about books on a bar, and when he introduced me the first friend i dated, we started to met there and soon other of their friends started to meet there. So there was basically two groups on this reunions: Older guys dating younger girls and older woman dating older guys. The young gf of my friend and other chick who used to go there treated me like i was a child, tho i was the same age as her the other one aswell. Believe me, wasnt for my attitude. Watching the conversations and by talks with the two older woman i dated in the ocasion, i noticed the similarities between the young and older women on the table. Both older women had relationships with far older men when they were young, one married and recently divorced, and i thought that by they way they behave they were actually trying to live in through me the experiences they lost when they choose to live with a older person. That used to happen a lot, the youger one ends feeling that the older one's life is more "important" endin having experiences that are not meant for their age. And later, at some point of his life, looks back and see that most of some experiences he/she should have he hasnt cos the person he/she was living with made he/she go to a different path. I felt unconfortable with taht sittuation, cos the women treated me as partner but at same time like someone who hasnt the experience to be viewed as equal. So i decided that would be better to have relationships with ppl about the same age, or young chicks After that, the only older women i has relationships was one 1 year older when i as 22 and one of 30 that i dated 2 weeks ago (i am 29).
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
Current GF is 5 years older, last GF was 6 years older (we broke up because of difference of aims in life and because she's a vegan and I can't miss a meat on a meal), the one before that was 3 years younger and I wanted to kill her in the end...
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
my current GF is 19 to my 24, age isnt a problem, in fact, not only are we engaged, but also planning on moving in together in the new year
one of my mates went out with a 44 year old when he was 24, and it lasted 2 years, which i think is pretty decent, age was eventually a factor there though, as he wanted kids and she didnt which put pressure on and eventually led to them splitting up
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
44 to 24? I would never even consider that.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
When i was 18 i was 'seeing' a 34 year old. That didnt last long after she cut me in a nasty place during foreplay.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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When i was 18 i was 'seeing' a 34 year old. That didnt last long after she cut me in a nasty place during foreplay.
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
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When i was 18 i was 'seeing' a 34 year old. That didnt last long after she cut me in a nasty place during foreplay.
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thats got to sting
i dont think that i have ever had any sex related injuries at all
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Re: Anyone been in relatonship with you beeing the young one?
my gf is 29, I'm 24
we moved in together a couple of months ago. Being going now for nearly two years. Age isn't really a big thing as she thinks any man aged between 18-70 are all the same mental age of about 15. It doesn't bother me in slightest the only slaggin |I get from me mates is that she is english but thats only plyaful sllaggin!
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IMHO older women are better, but there disadavantages too, I seem to spend more time staying than I would with a younger bird, but that means I can save me money for important things like crates of wife-beater and smoke!
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