From what i remember the merger never happened....?
We had a shared server, borrowed your forums and other such stuff but didnt merge as such. Our activity declined, as did the activity in any alliance of our size at that time and you simply took over any active members we had that wanted to join ND.
BlackIce became TiT, which never really got off the ground and anyone that is left from that era lives in #tit. Bascically thats myself, Obliterate, Dauthi, Influence, JUDO and one or two occasional visitors like Cambel and Vae.
My history might be slightly wrong but thats how i remember it
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