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I just knew it
I've posted earlier that I meet this bird online, chatted with her for 3 months, and are now about to meet her.
At first she seemed fun, uncomplicated and without issues. I knew it was to good to be trough, or atleast the rational part of my mind suspected it.
But now its starting to show.
Im meeting her next week.
I suspect this will be all ****ed up and disturb my mental peace so to speak.
Should I just delete her on messenger, delete her phone number on my cell phone and tell her that Im not meeting her. Or shall I go ahead?
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
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16 Jan 2005, 19:39
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Re: I just knew it
Go and report back in.
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16 Jan 2005, 19:45
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Re: I just knew it
just meet her, she may be the most amazing person you ever do
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16 Jan 2005, 19:46
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Re: I just knew it
You could regret not going, you probably would, but unless she turns out to be Dace-esque then I'm sure you won't regret going.
And yeah - let us know how it goes!
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It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
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16 Jan 2005, 19:47
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Re: I just knew it
Can you show us a pic of her? 
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16 Jan 2005, 19:48
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Re: I just knew it
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I can. But I wont.
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
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16 Jan 2005, 19:49
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Re: I just knew it
Why not?
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16 Jan 2005, 19:55
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Re: I just knew it
Becouse she gave the picture to me, not to GD.
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16 Jan 2005, 19:58
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Re: I just knew it
just gangsta-bang the living shit out of her first, then commence the persuit of her true personality.. theres no sense in worrying about who she really is right now because you havent even seen her yet... if she turns out to be someone you dont really want to be involved with (youll usually find this out on the 2nd date), gangsta-bang the living shit out of her the 2nd time, then never talk to her ever again..
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16 Jan 2005, 20:00
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Re: I just knew it
It's better to regret what you did than what you didn't.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:00
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Re: I just knew it
Go ahead, better to regret doing it than not doing it, or some other pearl of wisdom like that.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:02
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Re: I just knew it
_ryzekiel_ and hicks on the same wavelength here... one of those weird anomalies of the human mind
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16 Jan 2005, 20:02
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Re: I just knew it
Great minds, etc.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:03
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Becouse she gave the picture to me, not to GD.
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Ok, fair enough.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:23
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It's fair enough saying that but if the regret of going far outweighs that of not going (e.g. it results in rape), then would have still been better to regret not going.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:24
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Becouse she gave the picture to me, not to GD.
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You are property of GD.
I demand you share it at once.
What is yours is ours etc
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16 Jan 2005, 20:39
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Re: I just knew it
Im too polite, sadly 
Now come up with some good advices fs!
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16 Jan 2005, 20:40
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It's fair enough saying that but if the regret of going far outweighs that of not going (e.g. it results in rape), then would have still been better to regret not going.
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Fact remains, you wouldn't know if that would be the case until you actually go through with it. Then there's always the possibility of it actually coming through and not biting you on the ass, but I'd think that's a bit unlikely.
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16 Jan 2005, 20:42
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Re: I just knew it
The saying "It's better to have loved and to lost than never loved at all" is similar to the saying above, but lets face it, is absolute bollocks.
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It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
So **** y'all, all of y'all; if y'all don't like me, blow me! - Dr. Dre
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16 Jan 2005, 20:44
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Should I just delete her on messenger, delete her phone number on my cell phone and tell her that Im not meeting her.
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No. That would make you an arsehole. Are you an arsehole?
You can delay the meeting for now, until you decide for sure whether you want to meet her or not. If you do decide not to meet her then fine, tell her you don't want to meet her. But that doesn't mean you have to stop speaking altogether does it? Ffs don't just cut her out of your life because you've found out she's actually human.
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Re: I just knew it
Just go and meet her. I met a girl through the net (it was a mate of a mate who i got added into a convo with on messenger). I went and met her and we had a 7 month relationship, she was brilliant. After we split i didnt keep in contact with her. Next time i saw her was on a massive poster for toni and guy looking v v v hot.
The worst that can happen is that it will be a 40yr old bloke wearing a mini skirt and a wig!
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No. That would make you an arsehole. Are you an arsehole?
You can delay the meeting for now, until you decide for sure whether you want to meet her or not. If you do decide not to meet her then fine, tell her you don't want to meet her. But that doesn't mean you have to stop speaking altogether does it? Ffs don't just cut her out of your life because you've found out she's actually human.
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No, but Im trying to be one 
3 months and delay it? No thanks.
So there is no girls/woman who doesnt have issues?
I like to be finished with things.
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
<Jakiri> (Windows)XP was fine on release
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Re: I just knew it
Do it only if you are desperate.
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16 Jan 2005, 21:59
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Re: I just knew it
in the words of my wonderfully un-pc granmama:
"nobody ever regrets having too much sex"
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Do it only if you are desperate.
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HE MET THE GIRL ON THE INTERNET AND HE'S ASKING FOR ADVICE AS TO WHAT TO DO ON A DIFFERENT PART OF THE INTERNET? WHAT PART OF THAT STORY INDICATES HE'S NOT DESPERATE TO YOU?
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HE MET THE GIRL ON THE INTERNET AND HE'S ASKING FOR ADVICE AS TO WHAT TO DO ON A DIFFERENT PART OF THE INTERNET? WHAT PART OF THAT STORY INDICATES HE'S NOT DESPERATE TO YOU?
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Im just trying to create some amusment here
So shush with you.
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<Germania>but you called Fury a bully, and that is terribly unfair
<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
<Nantoz> Zhukov for Lord Protector!
<Jakiri> (Windows)XP was fine on release
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I knew it was to good to be trough, or atleast the rational part of my mind suspected it.
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Re: I just knew it
Hmmm.... well worst case scenario- you have an interesting [possibly no though] anecdote to tell at parties....
And well I have been with Amy for almost 4 months now (broken up 2x though) and am as happy as i cud be- why? I saw her in a dart [irish train] station, thought she unbelievable in every way and asked her for her number and she asked me out a week later.
You never know- something like this could happen to you- go for mate:
AND TELL US WHAT HAPPENS!
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16 Jan 2005, 22:28
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Re: I just knew it
Exactly man, asking my co-workers sisters msn adress after meeting her accidentically while clubbing is probably the best thing I did in 2004
With the exception of cutting emotional ties with my ex, purchasing a Zen, Tyler Durden style leather jacket and my sexually attractive shoes.
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Re: I just knew it
These "signs that are starting to show"... would one of them be a picture of a large cock that she sent you saying "i'm turned on for you!"?
If the answer to the above question is yes, then I advise you meet up ^_^
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No. That would make you an arsehole. Are you an arsehole?
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let "arsehole" be the word of the week, i usually just say "Asshole" but being that i'm not from britain just made it to my "words of the week" list -
-again, just have sex with her the first night and see how you are that first 5 minutes of dropping your load - thats the most honest moment of a male's mind - then see if those 5 minutes are worth going through again, if it is, then keep banging her, and maybe keep a relationship with her.. who knows right?
and remember... ignorance is the mother of fear - don't live your life asking yourself 'what couldve been like...'
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Re: I just knew it
Zhukov - realistically, what is the worst that can happen?
what is the best that can happen?
decide what's more likely and whether it's worth the risk.
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17 Jan 2005, 00:28
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Zhukov - realistically, what is the worst that can happen?
what is the best that can happen?
decide what's more likely and whether it's worth the risk.
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provided he doesn't build the meeting up by mentioning it to his friends there is no risk.
he only has to meet her.
if she's butt ugly he can keep it quiet till his grandson asks him for advice and then tell him the funny story of 'when i was young ...'
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I've posted earlier that I meet this bird online, chatted with her for 3 months, and are now about to meet her.
At first she seemed fun, uncomplicated and without issues. I knew it was to good to be trough, or atleast the rational part of my mind suspected it.
But now its starting to show.
Im meeting her next week.
I suspect this will be all ****ed up and disturb my mental peace so to speak.
Should I just delete her on messenger, delete her phone number on my cell phone and tell her that Im not meeting her. Or shall I go ahead?
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You fail to realise two things.
1. Dace's first rule of teh Intarweb : There are no Women on teh Intarweb.
2. Every single person on earth has "Issues". There is no such thing as a "Normal, Balanced person" , everyone has quirks and foibles, and you just learn to deal with them and get on with it. You will never meet the perfect woman. Nor even one remotely close to perfect. So ****ing get over it, meet her, and see how it goes.
Stop being such a whiner and start properly looking for love.
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Stop being such a whiner and start properly looking for love.
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start properly looking for love.
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Never look for love, you won't find it.
Let love find you.
OMG that sounds faggy, but it's true.
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If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor - James
It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
So **** y'all, all of y'all; if y'all don't like me, blow me! - Dr. Dre
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Never look for love, you won't find it.
Let love find you.
OMG that sounds faggy, but it's true.
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You're a fag. A fat, smelly, hairy, dungeon keeping fag.
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You're a fag.
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If only
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If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor - James
It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
So **** y'all, all of y'all; if y'all don't like me, blow me! - Dr. Dre
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Never look for love, you won't find it.
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If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor - James
It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
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Well, I think lots of people think I'm gay, 'cos I do gay things, but I just don't fancy guys.
Although it would stop me spending loads in 'Rhino.
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If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor - James
It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
So **** y'all, all of y'all; if y'all don't like me, blow me! - Dr. Dre
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Well, I think lots of people think I'm gay, 'cos I do gay things, but I just don't fancy guys.
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Maybe you are gay but haven't realised yet?
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I really don't think so, I'm just 'metrosexual'.
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If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor - James
It's hard to be humble when you're as great as I am - Muhammad Ali
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Ah, so you are a poof.
metrosexual is just a term that confused men use to excuse their gayness.
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Re: I just knew it
Ah the Brits and their ancient views about being a strong hetrosexual male 
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Ah the Brits and their ancient views about being a strong hetrosexual male |
define 'ancient'
if you mean that in the 1980's england like other western nations wrongly imported a south american concept of machoism then fine. though i must seem really really old to you.
if you mean something else you may fail in your knowledge of english history.
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I'm going to ban ste or stew for this. However if I ban one I ban the other. Oh the problems of identity confuse and bewilder us with such frequency
Also thermodynamics reminds me slightly of the old me (or rather the younger me).
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17 Jan 2005, 01:11
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Guy next door
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: The Netherlands
Posts: 4,745
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Re: I just knew it
I just oftenly read or hear it's always the British or better said English males who point and laugh at guys who just feel more like showing sensitive sides, exposing their weak sides towards their female partners.
For (silly) example:
"hey guys, I just told my girlfriend I don't feel like shagging her right now in this early stage because I feel we need to explore eachother a bit more before we're going to do something like that"
"HAHAHA LOL YOU FAGGOT, TAKE HER LIKE A MAN AND SHOW HER WHO'S IN CHARGE!"
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