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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Heh, just returned from our meet up, we watched Alexander (disapointing) and went out eating which where all rather good and cozy. We spoke about the part that seems to be missing in our eh 'relationship' and we both concluded that we are more like buddies, which is entirely true We both feel that we aren't romantically inspiring eachother while we really do enjoy being together and are physically and personally attracted to eachother. I actually brought the idea of just stopping to see eachother as a couple but she resisted on that idea quite firmly. She do wants to take things slowly but also wants to see where things ends. Exactly what I want as well, because we basicly now know that none of us is in love but somehow we want to make it happen.
So it was really just a cozy, friendly date but at the point of saying goodbye to eachother we suddenly had a weird moment of ehm passionate kissing and the grabbing around routine, something I already was considering as something from the past.
Anyway, I need to stop writing down every damn irrilevant detail on here, reading it back makes me feel like a huge drama fag.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
pix plz
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4 Jan 2005, 23:32
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
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You know, I was probably using my penis already (I am not speaking about urinating) while you where still playing with your GI Joe dolls and Lego bricks.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Silver - is she a virgin?
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4 Jan 2005, 23:37
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
oh lord, you are such a pussy its getting rediculous.
this girl is TWENTY years old, what makes you think she even wants to start a relationship with a guy almost 10 years older, and especially one that keep bringing up emotional related topics after a very short while.
you need to stop that, seriously, be less like Martha Stewart and more like Conan
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
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5 Jan 2005, 00:13
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Silver - personally (and remember I'm shite at relationships) I think things are quite promising. You just need to inject a bit of passion into the relationship - be risky, do the unexpected etc. Go for it.
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5 Jan 2005, 01:14
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
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You know, I was probably using my penis already (I am not speaking about urinating) while you where still playing with your GI Joe dolls and Lego bricks.
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Yeah but I bet Dace wouldn't fag around talking about what's missing from a relationship that's lasted what - a month?
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its called being repressed.
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5 Jan 2005, 01:17
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
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dace always fags around.
its called being repressed.
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At least he TRIED.
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Silver - personally (and remember I'm shite at relationships) I think things are quite promising. You just need to inject a bit of passion into the relationship - be risky, do the unexpected etc. Go for it.
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I just returned from a little party, she sms'ed me two times saying she misses me. I called her some hours ago to tell her I feel the same and we had a small very nice conversation and she completely wasn't annoyed by the fact I woke her up and calling her while being under the influence of alcohol.
I think you're ****ing right.
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6 Jan 2005, 09:19
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Several of my female friends have told me the EXACT SAME THING
and yet none of them are my gf
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6 Jan 2005, 13:41
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Come on Silversmoke. I guess your head is trying to tell you that "This is to good to be true". And you buy into it and starts to think... (Its going to fast forward, she doesnt really want me etc).
Dont listen to that feeling (that its going too well).
Now stop talk about feelings, show a good side of yourself and continue with it.
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7 Jan 2005, 19:09
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
i just found this post my Sliversmoke.
Does it still hold up?
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7 Jan 2005, 19:13
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
LOL!
You seem to have good long term memory. Are you an elephant?
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7 Jan 2005, 19:14
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
heh
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7 Jan 2005, 19:19
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LOL!
You seem to have good long term memory. Are you an elephant?
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There's some great threads to be reminded of!
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7 Jan 2005, 19:30
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Well, so long she's getting some.
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7 Jan 2005, 21:51
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Is that you?
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
no. unfortunately my eyes aren't that blue.
is that you then? 
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
At least yours isn't plastered in eyeliner, Ste.
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that's cos my girlfriend is pretty without makeup 
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harsh 
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Just returned from a bar with her, had some drinks and a conversation. Quite the typical conversation of 'let's remain buddies, it's fun like that and we will still go on vacation in two months as buddies'
We both agreed. In all honesty actually, at the moment of the conversation.
Outside, walking towards saying goodbye, I kissed her like schoolboys can't. Back home I sent her an sms that went like this; "hey buddy, I love you". She replied with; "Hi fellow buddy, I love you too, you know, I am really crazy of you actually, X"
/me is positively confused
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
"I love you"?!?
How many buddies do you say that too?
You need to get things sorted out, and sooner rather than later.
It appears that whatever you say, she just agrees with, so justtell her your having bum sex.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
you have a ****ed up relationship.
be a man and take the lead
none of this faffing about
if she doesnt like it hit her with a belt
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Nah, we are just having fun.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
People are missing the obvious point.
SilverSmoke is crap at this kind of relationship (By which we mean a hetrosexual one.) because he is a grade-A fag boy with prime ass.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Spunk on me, boy.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
YOU HAVE A POORLY RUN LIFE.
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
Your more ****ed up than me Silversmoke
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<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
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you have a ****ed up relationship.
be a man and take the lead
none of this faffing about
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
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This is the best advice in the thread. Seriously.
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Would it be the belt bit?
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"I love you"?!?
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*I wonder if it counts as a buddy
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Breathing deeply, walking backwards,
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Roller coaster favorite ride,
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
"hey buddy, let's get married" etc?
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Re: Buddies and still not cancelling the forhcoming date? oh gd
She invited you to meet her family fs. She wants you. Now do something about it.
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<Hicks>Occassionally individuals do things without Executive consent
<Dreadnought>You cant whois on Eclipse server without a registered nic, which mr ****stirrer doesnt have.
<Almeida> well i like to grow fat myself too, and when i have enough ships then i can engage in big battles
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Meeting the family is the beginning of the end
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i got along really well with my ex's family.
i really liked them
and seemingly they liked me too.
its not always bad news. just sometimes.
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