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16 Oct 2003, 12:20
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Good Son
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Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
I was talking to my girlfriend a few hours ago.
Here's how it went. I'll cut to the point and save you from the uninteresting chatter.
{she} So, what are you doing today?
{me} I've got my trainings at 5 pm, nothing else really.
{she} Oh, okay. I'm going swimming with a guy.
{me} A guy?
{she} -no reply-
{me} So, who is this "guy"?
{she} he's just a guy...
{me} with a name or anything?
{she} nobody important...
At this point, she conveniently had to go.
Now, any of you who understands women (if that is remotely possible), what was the fcking point of this? Seems to me like shouting "DITCH ME DITCH ME". I was thinking of reacting to this by taking some other girl out tomorrow (we've been together for some 2-3 months with my girlfriend at the moment, she's yet to get over that secrecy she usually holds - wich floats upon all conversations concerning her family or friends, and apparently, this "guy") and just blatanly shoving it to her face the same way she did ("Oh, by the way, I'm going out with a girl today").
What's the catch?
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16 Oct 2003, 12:28
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King of The Fat Boys
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
You should hire a prostitute, go round your girlfriend's place and she can catch you shagging the prostitute when she gets in. That'll show her, it'll show them all!!!!!!!
Or maybe you're just reading too much into it. I dunno, don't ask me!
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16 Oct 2003, 12:34
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Good Son
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Perhaps you are right T&F. Yet, I didn't see this one coming. I really didn't. I'll just (likely) pay back in the same extent and see what follows.
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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16 Oct 2003, 13:25
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Manga Kitten is back!
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Don't pay back...
Punch her in the nose, and call him a whore.
Then go and get another girl from the Pub's Shelf
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16 Oct 2003, 14:10
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Good Son
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Punch her... ehum...
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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16 Oct 2003, 18:45
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Women only understand one thing and thats extreme physical suffering.
You know what you have to do Tietaja.
Show her who's boss.
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16 Oct 2003, 18:52
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cynic
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
and you wonder why you cant pull dace
except for the ones that dont know any better
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16 Oct 2003, 18:55
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Quote:
Originally Posted by roadrunner_0
except for the ones that dont know any better
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all these paedo jokes have to stop
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16 Oct 2003, 18:57
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Clerk
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
If you're going to go out with this other girl because you'll enjoy her company, then cool. If it's pure retaliation, then you'll merely look a bit silly. Don't you think she likes you? Are you not satisfying her or something?
If you're secure about yourself, you won't worry about anyone else.
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16 Oct 2003, 19:04
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
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Originally Posted by roadrunner_0
and you wonder why you cant pull dace
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TBH i think i've got a fair idea.
I got a letter from an ex when she split up with me.
It lists my faults in a relationship so i kinda figured the reasons i dont pull are the same.
It's quite a long letter.
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16 Oct 2003, 19:05
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Long and in crayon*
*look i can laugh at myself
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16 Oct 2003, 19:10
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cynic
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
fair enough, slightly harsh there as i wasnt even going to make that joke!
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16 Oct 2003, 19:11
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
that wasnt bad for you.
i laughed.
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16 Oct 2003, 19:16
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
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Originally Posted by Dace
Long and in crayon
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That is the best thing you've posted in a year without a doubt*.
*May not be true
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16 Oct 2003, 23:11
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Personally, I would say that if she has nothing to hide she would have said she was going swimming with (his name). By telling you "a guy" she's kinda asking for interrogation.
Obviously, I don't know the details of your relationship with your girlfriend but you need to ask yourself a few questions about the condition of your relationship with this girl !
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17 Oct 2003, 06:42
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Good Son
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Heh, I've never felt insecure - or maybe I do.
To both points though, Bas and Hicks. I don't feel insecure. I mostly feel annoyed. Yes, she's asking for interrogation. Constantly. Wich is pretty annoying. It's been a few months (two, fair, three?) now, and yet I haven't met her folks (like I actually cared) or any of her "friends" or these "guys" (hence of the people I actually might be interested in meeting), although she's met my family - what's left of it - and most of my friends. The most important ones to sort out.
I've tried the interrogating way. Didn't work out. Just results in more secretive shit. Bloody annoying.
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17 Oct 2003, 06:52
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Happy
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
ok i'll try to figure this one out for you.
either she's done it because SHE'S insecure about YOU and wants to see your reaction
or
well.. she fancies the other guy :\
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17 Oct 2003, 06:54
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Good Son
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Pumping up your self esteem or checking your insecurity by doing annoying tests (that will likely just hurt or piss off the other person) isn't a way to go, you know?
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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17 Oct 2003, 08:48
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Harbinger of your Doom!
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Quote:
Originally Posted by Aryn
ok i'll try to figure this one out for you.
either she's done it because SHE'S insecure about YOU and wants to see your reaction
or
well.. she fancies the other guy :\
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I have to agree with Aryn here. She prolly want a reaction from you. You know women, their intensions are evil
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17 Oct 2003, 08:58
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Good Son
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Wants a reaction from me?
Does she want me to interrogate her (been there, done that)?
Or go out with another girl just to get back?
Or ditch her?
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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17 Oct 2003, 09:07
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Pretend Faggot
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
Become gay.
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17 Oct 2003, 19:46
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
God, you're one of these people that makes blokes look like we don't have a clue.
TALK TO HER.
Ask her NICELY what it is. I get jealous when my girlfriend meets guys. She knows this. So long as I don't blow my top, it's ok. Make it clear you care about her and you're concerned about where she is. On no account say anything that sounds like you don't trust her. Just say "Well I'm rather protective, as you're good looking, and I know guys are after you". She'll reply with something like "Well I wouldn't do anything with them!" and then you go "I know, I know. I'm an idiot. I just know what guys are like, and I care about us".
Something like that.
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17 Oct 2003, 19:49
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Banned
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
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Originally Posted by Tomkat
. She'll reply with something like "Well I wouldn't do anything with them!"
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Lying, filthy dirty PAINTED WHORE!
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17 Oct 2003, 20:30
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Banned
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Re: Reality Forums Presents: My Relationship Drama
you have a girlfriend and you are still complaining?
die, tec
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