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17 Oct 2003, 06:53
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Good Son
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Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
The clickable smilies don't function at this school compie, so I'll add them later once I get home to cheer up the atmosphere a bit or cut down on the depression.
So, here's how it goes. This happened yesterday evening at around 9 pm. I was comfyly eating some dinner (late one) and watching telly (bad habits die hard). At this point, you might wish to read the first sequel there to catch up on the events.
She phoned. I was first thinking of ignoring her but I did, for some reason, pick up the call. I was annoyed to a certain extent, perhaps a bit too annoyed.
{she} hi, how are ya?
{me} oh hell, what do you want?
{she} oww, I just got home, went a bit late...
{me} went a bit late? so you went swimming at, like, 4 pm, and you got home six hours after?
{she} yus, I did go shopping too... Had to run around the town looking for that coat, remember?
{me} whatever, I'm actually not interested at the slightest.
{she} oh...
{me} So, was there actually anything you wanted?
{she} I was just thinking, if you don't have any plans for tomorrow, we could perhaps do something together?
{me} Actually, (a friend of mine) WAS supposed to phone me, but he's seemingly forgotten or something...
{she} So, you are free?
{me} I'm not quite sure, I was planning on going to see a film or to my mate's...
{she} Oh well, maybe you'll know more tomorrow?
{me} Yea.
{she} Talk to you tomorrow at school then, okay?
{me} Whatever, you know, I'm not in the mood to talk right now, I'm a little pissed off (Note: Not drunk), and I'm trying to eat.
{she} Okay, eat then, maybe it'll make you feel better. Talk to ya tomorrow. Good nite darling.
At that point I dropped the call.
I am so ditching that girl. Or then I'm hurting her first (if humanly possible) and then ditching her.
Any other ideas?
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17 Oct 2003, 07:03
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Happy
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
well she does sound concerned
i might give her the benifit of the doubt
i mean she is a woman after all
and most spend hours at the mall looking for a single item :\
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17 Oct 2003, 07:44
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Heh, Leeds !
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Just ditch her. There is no point hurting her. When I murdered my wife I made sure it didn't hurt and she didn't suffer
Vaio
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17 Oct 2003, 08:49
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Harbinger of your Doom!
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
well, at least she wanna spend time with you. I would have gone for it, and asked her about what she ment about 'the guy'. Be honest, and ask her to be, just dont go nuts and sound like you are a jealous fothermucker or something
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17 Oct 2003, 08:59
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Good Son
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Devilizer, I asked about that guy, but I didn't get any answers. Perhaps I'll ask today. I've been avoiding her a bit already, dodgy stuff innit.
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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17 Oct 2003, 09:10
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Pretend Faggot
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
You should have said this friend was a girl.
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17 Oct 2003, 10:17
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Good Son
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
I should have.
Perhaps I'll tell her that today once she calls and asks whether or not I have time today.
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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17 Oct 2003, 10:28
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Registered User
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Toccata & Fugue
You sound like a whiny cnut. spare us the lurid details of your failed existance.
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17 Oct 2003, 10:31
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Toccata & Fugue
You sound like a whiny banana. spare us the lurid details of your failed existance.
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17 Oct 2003, 10:32
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Registered User
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
are bananas more or less whiny than cnuts?
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I think it's time we blow this scene, get everybody and the stuff together..........
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17 Oct 2003, 10:33
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Radical Edward
are bananas more or less whiny than cnuts?
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I suppose it might be possible to make banana wine, so I'm going for MORE.
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17 Oct 2003, 10:41
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by MrL_JaKiri
I suppose it might be possible to make banana wine, so I'm going for MORE.
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<bruce forsythe>
he's gone for more ladies and gentlemen.... lets look at the next link... and what does it say? Banana wine
well Done MrL, you won a bottle of home brewed banana wine, with no added antifreeze.
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I think it's time we blow this scene, get everybody and the stuff together..........
ok 3..... 2..... 1.. let's jam
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17 Oct 2003, 10:41
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The Twilight of the Gods
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
But the antifreeze is the best part
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17 Oct 2003, 10:44
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Registered User
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
I suppose so, you get to be put on an acohol drip for several days while the metanol diffuses out of your eyes. well for being clever you get a free bottle of antifreeze.
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I think it's time we blow this scene, get everybody and the stuff together..........
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17 Oct 2003, 13:12
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Registered User
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Just ditch her. I you can't communicate or trust her then there is no sense carrying it on any further.
Also, if you haven't met the family / friends then what exactly is she hiding or afraid of ?
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17 Oct 2003, 13:30
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Ignore all these "dump her" screaming faggots.
Carry on ****ing her until you find a new girlfriend.
Just view it as a sexual relationship and dont get emotionally involved any more.
If you're not having sex with her then i really worry (and you should dump her).
[/agony uncle]
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17 Oct 2003, 13:32
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Dace
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all this time you have been an agony uncle?!? crikey, I wonder what will happen now you have finally closed the pseudocode.
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I think it's time we blow this scene, get everybody and the stuff together..........
ok 3..... 2..... 1.. let's jam
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17 Oct 2003, 13:50
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Radical Edward
all this time you have been an agony uncle?!? crikey, I wonder what will happen now you have finally closed the pseudocode.
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**** KNOWS!
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17 Oct 2003, 14:00
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Manga Kitten is back!
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Aryn
well she does sound concerned
i might give her the benifit of the doubt
i mean she is a woman after all
and most spend weeks at the mall looking for a single item :\
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FIXED TO FIT MY GF TOO
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17 Oct 2003, 14:15
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Good Son
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Basdereva
Just ditch her. I you can't communicate or trust her then there is no sense carrying it on any further.
Also, if you haven't met the family / friends then what exactly is she hiding or afraid of ?
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It keeps on puzzling me to. She's either ashamed of me, or her folks, and her friends, or then she has no friends, or then she's just STUPID, or IGNORANT, or INEXPERIENCED, or IMMATURE, or all at the same time.
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Random sex-related rambing
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Yes I am getting laid. You do have a point. A good one.
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"Oh, wretched race of a day, children of chance and misery, why do ye compel me to say to you what it were most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is for ever beyond your reach: not to be born, not to be, to be nothing. The second best for you, however, is soon to die". Silenus, tutor to Dionysos, speaking to King Midas.
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17 Oct 2003, 15:22
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Banned
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Being petty just makes you look the fool.
Just ditch her if you want to.
Don't fanny about doing other shit.
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17 Oct 2003, 15:30
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Historian
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Your self-pitying is both counterproductive and destructive.
Go out with her, explain to her calmly that you were upset by the fact that she made a commitment and then seemingly forgot it while shopping. She called you and wishes to see you, so apart from bolstering your seemingly terribly ragile ego, what benefit is there to being crypticly sarcastic on the phone?
Explain to her her error, see what her eaction is. If she apologises and makes amends, then ignore it and move on. If she seems uncaring about her faux-pas, explain that while it may not mean much to hear, it means something to you.
Its really terribly simple.
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17 Oct 2003, 15:33
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so f*cking zen
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
I Do Not Ramble!
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17 Oct 2003, 18:23
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Cynical Optimist
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by Dace
I Do Not Ramble!
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Like a rambling old agony uncle...
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17 Oct 2003, 19:17
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Banned
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
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Originally Posted by JamMak
Like a rambling old agony uncle...
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Like YOUR MOM
No, seriously guys, it's ok. I know his mom, no need to ban me.
...seriously.
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17 Oct 2003, 19:50
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Re: Reality forums presents: My Relationship Drama Part II: Plot thickens
Mate, you're being insensitive. If you're such a prat to her, and some other guy is nice and goes swimming, can you blame her wanting to spend time with someone else?
ASK about what she did at the mall, joke about how long girls take to shop. Ask how the swimming was. Make a cheeky remark about seeing her in a swimming costume.
She made the effort to phone you. And it seemed she wanted to talk. You two have some real communication problems, don't you?
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