Re: Vampyric alliance needs you
I know you're free to do what you like and you are allowed to be "leader". The thing is that there are quite some power hungry HCs out there and being that will never really get you very far most of the time. Being leader is not something that you are from the start and will be at all times. Being leader is something that you become if you put in a lot of hard work and know how to help your alliance members. With just 1 member beside yourself you're no leader and never will be. The key to a succesfull alliance is composing a team of excellent HCs. Once you have these the rest should go automatically. On your own you'll never get there. You will need those other HCs each with their own qualities to rise up in the ranks. Most small alliances have at least 1 good HC so it's of critical importance most of the time to merge to get up higher at the start to get a good working team together. And if you indeed are the most succesfull of all those HCs in the new alliance, you indeed are the "leader". The best thing an alliance can get though is a ful working team of HCs with no "leader" where they all have become friends instead of creating friction and struggles for power where there is no need for. There is no need for being "leader". Saying that is only a weakness. It shows an excess of pride where the sneaky will take advantage off and use in your disadvantage. To really become a good "leader" you should forget all about being "leader" and leave the unnecessary pride which automatically makes you feel your alliance is superiour alone and act on behalf of everything that is in the best interest of YOUR alliance instead of everything that is in the best interest of your own ego.
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