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14 Mar 2004, 21:18
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Star teh mog0r
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: The Black Lagoon
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im scared
sooner or later ill leave the school/college that i have spent 7 years of my life at and never see it again + ill lose half my freinds and my entire life will have to change..
im getting older... one day ill be old and unfit and wrinkly and ugly
then one day ill die
change scares me
anyone else have this problem???
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14 Mar 2004, 21:22
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The Twilight of the Gods
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 23,481
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Re: im scared
It's a midlife crisis.
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14 Mar 2004, 21:23
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Friendly geek of GD :-/
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: On my metal roid
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Re: im scared
I had it... Even like 6 months before I actually left school. Which enabled me a different view on all the people / the building etc. I had plenty of time to "say good bye" in my mind.
Sadly it's all true about some of the friends etc.
The worst thing is that it's hard to get "below people" once you're out of school. The only regular event where I meet lots of young people of my age is friday evening, when I go to orchestra rehearsal.
Apart from that: You only get to know young people (or meet them) in discos, clubs, pubs. Also your friends of course. But not the usual load of people. You know, when you walk accross the schoolyard and half the people you walk by say hello to you...
That's a bit of what I miss.
Still, life can also get better!
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14 Mar 2004, 21:23
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Next goal wins!
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: London
Posts: 5,406
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Re: im scared
no, school college was shit.
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14 Mar 2004, 21:25
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The Twilight of the Gods
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 23,481
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Re: im scared
Sixth form was pretty sweet.
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14 Mar 2004, 21:44
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Blatantly overcooked
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 1,575
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Re: im scared
I panicked the first 3 months of senior year in highschool then I realized most of the people who studied with me were crap, and the only ones that i would miss would still be around me somehow, and then i went to college and it rocks....
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14 Mar 2004, 22:49
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WANNASEEMYNEWCHAINSAW
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Éire
Posts: 2,738
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Re: im scared
University was shit,school was shit,waste of fking time.
I was apprehensive about life,had no job after graduation. Couldnt get one,there are too many IT pro's around and not enough jobs. No expereience ment no chance of interview. Catch 22 situation.
I ended up at home,worried about everything. Got a job in Dell as a line monkey and its cheered my up no end. Im getting something done for once. Im doing things with my hands and Im good at it. Its not for long but it managed to clear away all those hideous doubts about wether I'd be able to go out and work.
I panicked about wether I'd be able to cope with the change. With the idea of having to go out into the real world was scarey. Pffh it doesnt matter now,you either sink or swim and most people swim.
Try not to worry about it much,but once your doing it you'll be ok.
Just deny everything,cover your ears and blindly go on with your work until its graduation and you cant worry about it anymore
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14 Mar 2004, 23:30
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Heh, Leeds !
Join Date: Apr 2000
Location: In The Redfern
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Re: im scared
At least you are not Nodrog, that thought should be a comfort
Vaio
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15 Mar 2004, 03:00
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Born Sinful
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: Loughborough, UK
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Re: im scared
Nope, wasn't a problem as the 6th form I went to was on the same campus (was actually part of the same school). It worked out quite well really, seeing as most of the "shit" people who you never really wanted to be around anyway didn't make it to 6th form, so you had more time with people you wanted to spend time with.
Yeah a few went off to other 6th forms / colleges, but they still lived where they'd always lived and went to the same bars etc.
After 6th form was worse, but thanks to the "MSN revolution" i still talk to most people (yes my contacts list is stupidly long) and there's always mobiles + txt for anyone who's not caught up with the current centuary and is without the internet.
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15 Mar 2004, 04:04
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Godfather
Join Date: May 2000
Location: England
Posts: 5,185
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Re: im scared
why are people so scared of change?
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15 Mar 2004, 04:10
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Damn Dog
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 1,249
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Re: im scared
im 20 now, that's half way to 40. AND THAT SUCKS!
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15 Mar 2004, 08:01
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Das Scoot
Join Date: May 2001
Posts: 788
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Re: im scared
Quote:
Originally Posted by JammyJim
why are people so scared of change?
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If life is good, things can only get worse.
I started getting depressed when I was 17 and already having a significant number of conversations about "the good old days".
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15 Mar 2004, 10:43
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Clerk
Join Date: Jun 2001
Posts: 13,940
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Re: im scared
Sixth form was generally ace. Uni was ace in other ways, but I didn't really see my friends for a bit.
I still see my friends that I've known for years, so no problems there. Everything would still be ace, but I have to work.
I'm having quite a lot of fun atm (aside from work), but I'm mildly depressed about aging. Still, only 23, plenty of damage I can do to myself emotionally & physically yet!
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15 Mar 2004, 10:58
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cynic
Join Date: May 2000
Location: Bishop Auckland Co. Durham
Posts: 8,809
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Re: im scared
at 23, i am still in contact with EVERYONE from school that i wanted to be in contact with, and my social circle is STILL increasing in size as my group makes new friends, so, no, i havent found this at all.
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15 Mar 2004, 11:24
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The Twilight of the Gods
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 23,481
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Re: im scared
I don't age.
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