[Chika]

You use the phrase "we", though I have heard nothing since I said lets ask our girlfriends from anyone else. They ignored the phrase.
They have a word for people like you, I can't quite pinpoint it but I do know that it refers to people who try to speak for everyone, but can't speak for themselves.
The truth of the matter is, in this situation, asking a girl would render a better grasp on the topic.
But you go ahead and defend your people against the evil chika` buddy. I will let your people cross the river!