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Sunday8pm · 6 Nov 2004, 19:45

You don't wanna listen to some of the muppet advice going on around here, if you are interested in teh woman and she's definately spending more time with you than her bf and markedly complaining about the time with her bf she's looking for someone to give her a reason to break.

If she breaks up with him on her own she is going to be not good for immediately dating again, the energy it takes herself to do all that will just sap her of any interest in getting involved again and she'll probably behave a bit like a slapper for a while.

What you gotta do is make advances on her, not big stupid ones but really really flirty saucy ones that make her think about you when she's doing the self-petting in bed at night than her bf.

Phone her up or IM her before she's due to hit the hay at night for a while, make sure the last thing she's thinking about at night is you, play up how you'd like to hold her but you'd be showing all the willpower you'd have not to do such and such (use your imagination to tease her here), boost her self esteem, pick out her qualities and her aspirations and make her feel positive and good about them and how you'd be the person that can see this in her and you'd walk hand in hand with her (though use better wording) down those life paths.

For a while she'll never admit it but she'll prolly be diddling herself thinking of you while you are talking etc then she'll go into bug friends mode for a bit about her situation, this is where it can potentially backfire, what you do here is flatter her mates but at no point ask them to interfere on behalf of the relationship... it's suicide, you've got to give her the balls to dump the bf, make her arrange to spend time with the gf's about 12-24 hours after the deed (not right away or she might make a regrettable mistake and take him back), advise her to take him off all contact lists she has so the guy is reduced to at best phoning her to talk to her which will seem too pushy.

Now for the gold, she's obviously a monkey sort... i.e. she has to be clinging to another branch before she let's go of the old branch (in other words have a new bf before letting go of the old one), so she's holding onto you, what you have to do is play the concerned gentleman, comfort her but express second doubts about pushing her into another relationship so soon and that you don't want to be a possible ball and chain that holds her from her ambitions(thus in turn making her cling desperately to the branch :P), play in a gf of her's that'll try to play mediator and set it back up for you two to see sense and go at it together cause she as sure as all hell probably doesn't want to pick up the pieces for a while.

And you're set.

6 Nov 2004, 19:45	#21
Sunday8pm Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 2,442	Re: My mind is broken. Help me fix it. You don't wanna listen to some of the muppet advice going on around here, if you are interested in teh woman and she's definately spending more time with you than her bf and markedly complaining about the time with her bf she's looking for someone to give her a reason to break. If she breaks up with him on her own she is going to be not good for immediately dating again, the energy it takes herself to do all that will just sap her of any interest in getting involved again and she'll probably behave a bit like a slapper for a while. What you gotta do is make advances on her, not big stupid ones but really really flirty saucy ones that make her think about you when she's doing the self-petting in bed at night than her bf. Phone her up or IM her before she's due to hit the hay at night for a while, make sure the last thing she's thinking about at night is you, play up how you'd like to hold her but you'd be showing all the willpower you'd have not to do such and such (use your imagination to tease her here), boost her self esteem, pick out her qualities and her aspirations and make her feel positive and good about them and how you'd be the person that can see this in her and you'd walk hand in hand with her (though use better wording) down those life paths. For a while she'll never admit it but she'll prolly be diddling herself thinking of you while you are talking etc then she'll go into bug friends mode for a bit about her situation, this is where it can potentially backfire, what you do here is flatter her mates but at no point ask them to interfere on behalf of the relationship... it's suicide, you've got to give her the balls to dump the bf, make her arrange to spend time with the gf's about 12-24 hours after the deed (not right away or she might make a regrettable mistake and take him back), advise her to take him off all contact lists she has so the guy is reduced to at best phoning her to talk to her which will seem too pushy. Now for the gold, she's obviously a monkey sort... i.e. she has to be clinging to another branch before she let's go of the old branch (in other words have a new bf before letting go of the old one), so she's holding onto you, what you have to do is play the concerned gentleman, comfort her but express second doubts about pushing her into another relationship so soon and that you don't want to be a possible ball and chain that holds her from her ambitions(thus in turn making her cling desperately to the branch :P), play in a gf of her's that'll try to play mediator and set it back up for you two to see sense and go at it together cause she as sure as all hell probably doesn't want to pick up the pieces for a while. And you're set.