[Mistwraith]

As you get older, your Inner Circle of friends naturally decreases, people move on with their lives, move in with a girl/boy, change jobs and citys, go to uni, start to hang in different areas/pubs, find different interests etc.

As feelings of obligation to come to your 21st, its party, there is no obligation involved, they either say yes or no, reasons for not comming will be, i'm broke (after all it is january), i have other commitments and holding it on a week night for the workers would create problems too.

How you celebrate your 21st happily is your choice, do that which you wish to do .. 4 friends .. booze and a some *cough* dvd's is as legitimate as partying into the night with lots of people.


I did my 21st with 3 other girlys sat on my new undecorated lounge floor, chatting, drinking, eating and watching videos. ( i had just moved .. i had little cash, and little time)