Gay 'marriage'
today the front page of the metro showed a gay english couple getting 'married' yesterday a scottish couple and the day before and irish couple.
i am very much in favour of people getting all rights etc that go with this civil partnership lark, i think the same rights should be available for sisters or friends living together long term but i do wish they would stop using the word marriage to describe it. my question is ... do you think it is to make gay couples seem more acceptable and legitimate (is we/they are married more paletable than we/they have a civil partnership agreement) or is it a media spin to make the legal document more understandable to the general public (call it something that it is similar too for ease of recognition)? or both? anyway it pisses me off |
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Why do you believe hetrosexual couples should enjoy a monopoly on the term 'marriage'? In any case, why does it matter?
edit : I was ambiguous about the whole thing, but I was reading the paper this morning and found all the coverage quite pleasing. If nothing else, it'll piss off a whole bunch of homophobic ****s out there. Which can only be a good thing. |
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you'd prefer a Polish situation? |
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Well what would you say is marriage? Does it need a religious component? Does it have to be between a man and a woman? Am I still 'married' if I have a heterosexual secular service in a registry office?
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all seems a bit of a fuss, tbh.
out of curiosity, can a hetrosexual couple have a civil partnership if they so wish? ie, is this gay marriage thing any different to what hetrosexuals get at a registry office? |
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There are a few things that all cultures have in common. One them is the existence of marriage. However, Anthropologists can only create vague definitions for it, because it appears in so many different forms.
In some cultures in Africa, you can only own property if you have a wife. If a woman wants to own property, she has to marry another woman. I believe she can do this even she is already married to a husband. This usually only happens when the husband dies and the woman wants to own the property her husband left behind. In the highlands of Tibet and surrounding regions there is a shortage of arable land. When a land owning family has several sons this becomes a problem, because there isn't enough land to devide among all the sons and it's not as if the other sons will find any unused land of their own if only the eldest receives the land. Their solution is Polyandry. In Tibet a woman will marry a group of brothers that can range in ages by decades. In other words, madi, calling the union of homosexual couples 'marriage' is nothing new nor is it sinister. |
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i dont think it is sinister, but it is an incorrect name for the agreement.
the media description includes a pair of ' which is why i did in my title, as the union is actually a civil partnership agreement. the agreement doesnt need to be witnessed in public, there is no marriage licence or wedding. and it pisses me off because i dislike the misrepresentation of things. |
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gay people can't get married but there's something vry close to it which serves the same purpose. who gives a shit if they call a spade a spade?
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edit: can I use the word symptom in a value-neutral way or does it always imply the thing is a disease? :confused: |
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actually i do, and tend not to read or watch the news too much because it is so annoying i spend a lot of time pissed off (and a registry office is public, with a public notice being posted so that objections can be made, i know as i had one) |
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I realise you're probably not, but it's easy to read threads like this as homophobic, by implication. I seem to remember a similar thread where people like Deffeh said marriage was a Christian institution but wasn't particularly forthcoming as to where that monopoly stemmed from. |
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This picture made me laugh.
Grumpy old gits. |
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Sure the specific type of marriage we might have enshrined into tradition in this country might be considered a Judeo-Christian "version" but then the whole argument becomes a bit tautological. |
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I find most people I know under about 35 really just dont care. It tends to be older people that ahve a view on it. |
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It annoys me, but only because I'm a pedant. If they had passed a law creating/allowing (depending on which way you look at it) gay marriage, I'd be quite happy to call it that (and the gay marriages in some other countries obviously are marriages), but they didn't, it's not, and I wish the media would stop being wrong about everything all the time.
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:rolleyes: edit: hey, at least you arent a mathematician though! :win: |
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science :mad: |
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Why shouldn't mentally ill people be able to 'marry'?
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You know the significant difference between that and what I'm writing now? What I'm writing now obeys a consistent set of rules and has a number of configurations of known meaning. These are called grammar and vocabulary. It's these things that mean when I say "dog" you know I'm probably referring to a quadrupedal woofing thing. Of course, this differs with context, but that's one of the subtleties of language. Grammar is something that lets me communicate to you the interactions between these abstract representations of concepts. If you want to ignore these wonderful tools of communication, fine. Go back to the tried and true methods of gesturing at things and trying to eat them. Quote:
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Further to this, it is entirely sensible to say that, since this consistent framework exists, we should use it where at all possible. If I say something is travelling with constant speed, for example, you know I'm referring only to the scalar quantity, because I use the word "velocity" when I'm referring to the vector quantity, and the implication by omission is that I must therefore not be using crappy verbal shorthand. If words have an obvious consistent, technical use, use it. It is not a valid counterargument to spout some conjecture of sociology that is blatently irrelvent to the discussion at hand. Quote:
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Would a child calling his foster parents 'Mum' and 'Dad' piss you off too?
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Oh, and in answer to your question:
I think that the reason it's called marriage is because gays have been fighting for the right to marry for ages, and now they've been given something that for all practical purposes is the same as a marriage. So they consider themselves to be married. I consider them to be married. I'm sure 'marriage' has a very well-defined legal meaning, but 'power' has a very well-defined meaning in physics, and I don't go off on one every time someone is described by a tabloid as 'powerful'. |
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[edit] WW righty ho |
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No, it was to the OP.
Basically, gay people are now able to have a union recognised legally, and if that means the same to them as marriage, why can't they consider themselves married? |
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Saying that 2 people can have a church wedding, exchange vows, and then have all the legal benefits of a married couple without actually 'being married' is bordering on incoherent. What actually is 'marriage' over and above these things?
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Re: your edit, it's probably more accurate to refer to androgyny than hemaphrodity. |
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I've not heard of that, but I'm guessing its because the number of features characterising each sex are sufficiently few in a 'simple' creature that talking about a continuum starts to make sense?
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